Cheer up Guys!

Hello Readers,
I am back with another post. This time I felt like I should dispatch some gyan.Because Now-a-days I see people depressed everywhere,so depressed that they are found to take anti-depression pills. I know many of you are nodding your heads to this, stop right now. No, Don't stop reading stupes. I said to stop nodding and think for a second, what has led you to this?
I am sure you weren't like this in the first place. If the name of your girlfriend/boyfriend/crush pops in,then stand up and practise an exercise.
Stand up straight, take a deep breath, yeah good.Now stretch your left leg backwards,  I know its difficult to concentrate while reading but please do it, its for your own good . Pull it up , yea, more,more perfect. Now, with full force kick your right butt with your left leg. Try it. Now dont curse me for this, if you can be stupid enough to let SOMEONE else govern your lives, I can make you do such hilarious things too.
Come on friends, How can you let anyone affect you. Never feel guilty about yourself. Treat yourself right, Going on a crash diet because 'He' likes thin girls ? Oh, Really? And what about Rajma Chawal which your mom prepared for you?
I extend my sympathies to those who cry everyday just because situations in life are not favouring them, be it low marks or never working relationships or anything, for them I write today.
1. What is happiness: Each one us will have a varied definition for happiness. For me Happiness is seeing a smile that makes its way through tears or may be when I lose an inch or may be chocolate brownies or scoring 10/10 in a test for which I didn't study. Happiness is a STATE of mind. It depends on how you take things to be.

2. You are not less than anybody: See, However great we are, we can never settle in less than what we deserve. The people today are becoming more realistic in their approach. Are you ready to pay two hundred bucks for the thing you can get in hundred ? So If you are in a relationship,You are not less than your partner if you were, why would he/she would even select you?

3. Master the art of "busy-ness": Learn to be busy!' Idle mind is devil's workshop" With this qoute I need not say more! Try not to rush through things, Complete things with full dedication, be it whatever work office work, making a greeting card or cooking breakfast for your mom on her D-Day.

4. Embrace your weaknesses : Remember, How your mom used to kiss you when as a kid, You couldn't learn the spelling of BUTTERFLY. If she had scolded you then, You would never have the spellings till now, that magic kiss did wonders, Isn't it? Try to caress your weaknesses.

5.Don't let External conditions ruin your Happiness: Always remember,situations are not according to you. You have to make them favourable by working according to them. Every Condition has two aspects,its your choice which one to choose.

6. It all depends on your perception : How you take things to be, us another main point which takes toll on everything else. Being happy with Bigger achievements is quite natural, but finding happiness in petty things is an art. I always envied one of my closest friend because she can find something hilarious in every damn thing, I mean how ?

7: Let it flow : Never keep things in your heart, its always difficult to walj carrying the burden. On this, I feel the urge to qoute the words from this famous song, "jab tak hum kisi ke hamdard nhi ban jate na, tab tak hum dard se or dard hum se juda nhi hota". Amazing lines.These lines took the place on my whatsapp status for almost two weeks. So, coming back to the topic, let it out. Please, share your problems, it helps. You  can even try the ' Jab we met' tricks. Sharing always helps (personal experience) =D
With this I end my post for today, because I am feelong so lonely:P (Being sarcastic helps you alot to be happy too) Share your suggestions in the comment box and help me please :)

So, Bye. Take care. And yeah, sorry for that exercise ;)

Be happy keep smiling and keep sharing :*

Ending school, never ending friendships. :D

Ending School, Never Ending friendships.

Fourteen years sweapt away, I just couldn't realise where it all went away.
I would not repeat those overused lines like," On first day we cried  because we didnt want to go to school and On the last day we cry because we dont want to leave it." Or" However worse your school life maybe you'll always miss it when you leave."
Though these line carry a lot of significance,but they are used so often that these precious words do not exactly say what I feel. So, here is my expression of the ending school life.

People say, High school friends are till High school.I cant tell if this is true or not but I can definitely tell that,Bestfriends are meant for lifetime. You cant go to every new place and find a new best friend.

Its not just stepping out of the school but also stepping into a new world.
And as my parents say, the people here are very cruel, not like my friends always around me, helping me. :D
I know I am sounding like a two year old girl whose mom has asked her to not to take chocolates from strangers. You know like "Meri mummy Strangers se baat krne se mana krti hai" :')
:P

When I was a child, I always wondered how is it growing up, how is it living in freedom, how is it leaving house without taking permissions, How is it to talk like grown ups.?
This is what every child thinks I suppose.
But Now when I am all ready to experience this so called FREE life, Why am I scared?!
I composed this poem a while back and whenever I read this poem, I feel myself struck in a situation like A person in middle of a sea.

All my life I have been thinking,
How it'd be outside.
When there'd be no restrictions
And no peeping into my life.

When its time to  open the door,
And switch on the light,
I am not really excited,
I realised.

Where is that lost charm,
Where is that real warmth,
Where is the protected house,
I feel sick as I move out.

I didnt realise I was this close,
My friends are all like beautiful rose.
Its time to say good bye,
I choke, and close my eye.

Remembering the time we spent together,
Lovely, It was in every weather.
Those silly pranks and chikdish fun,
Now would be wrapped in small bun.

Crying over marks, is now stupidity.
A Fish drawn was called creativity.
Birthdays were a huge celebration,
Without big halls and decoration.

No one afraid of being judged,
Now Just a mistake and it cant be rubbed.
Laughing with friends was only joy.
And leaving them I would cry.

Will we become strangers?
I fear.
Being Unknown to someone
Who is so dear.

In these brilliant colours of life,
The colour of friendship
May not become light.
I wish.

I really wonder as to what
This world would be like
When I would actually
Open my eyes.

I was always so excited to reach here
And now I am here?
Why is it so tough?
Weren't fourteen years not enough?

Its time for us to move ahead.
But is the traffic signal still red?
Are anymore things left to write?
Or shall I go and stride.

Whenever I read this poem I feel choked.I never really wanted to come this far.This is the end of my beginning,may be I am destined to go very far.
But this is definitely not the end to our never ending friendships :)

Because friends are never made till we meet them. We say bestfriends are not those who talk daily but they are those who when talk,even after an year, the talk like they had never left talking.

I promise my friends that I ll take the never ending friendship (though with this ending school life) till my last breath. <3
So this is it for today, I will be back with a new post after sometime.
Till then take care and keep sharing :D

About Me =D

An average 17 year old girl.

I know none of you has an ordinary life. Life is never stable. Every second brings something unusual or unwanted surprises.
Since this is my First post, I may introduce myself too.My Friends call me.super awesome. Yeah, I am an awesome girl. Okay Okay, I am not that awesome. But my friends do not lie so by  believing them I often accept this fact, looks as if I am in love with the word Awesome, No, I love Arjun Kapoor. What a guy he is ,Not like those stupid bollywood people.Yea, I know that I have an unrealistic crush. But I am a Delhi girl with all the rights to have impractical crushes.
Something more about me,a would be twelfth grader, subjected to everone's(yes,everyone mom,dad,aunty,uncle, dur vali aunty, dur vale uncle) expectations,Bearing the untold pressure of getting marks and getting into a well-Reputed college of Delhi University,A commerce student by wish(because I hate science ),Love writing anything, Friends are a top priority, Well thats quiet obvious so please ignore the last part :P

I have dreams beyond  anyone's imagination,I want to make my parents happy, and then settle my being-a-writer dream.The Dispute of the hour is not what I will be in years to come,but How to score in Class 12. -.-
Everyday there is a debate competition in my house, about which coaching classes I should get into, how to plan the schedule for the whole year, How Should I get over this WhatsApp Addiction thing.. I am not really adficted to WhatsApp but It is a matter of chance that whenever my parents step into my room, I am on phone. My Hard luck I know :(

And as if this was less, They say we dont pressurize  you but Mr.Sharma's daughter scored an aggregate of 98% marks,what is it?
Isn't this Pressurizing poor kids?
Wasn't that enough?
Thanks to Sony television to regularly playing Three Idiots, and my Mom showing me the newspaper cutting(which she had very nicely cut to show me numerous time) of  interview of The great Mr.Chetan Bhagat,saying, Somehow Farhan(R.Madhvan) was able to convince his parents but its unrealistic and people should first settle down,By settling down, they mean to get some job where they treat you like shit but in return pay you some handsome salary and then pursue whatever you are compassionate for.After that cumbersome job who will think of writing a diary or playing guitar or even dancing?
And they say dream Practically?

So,my parents never asked me turn down the desire to become a writer but always ADVISED me to pursue it after settling down.

But I must not say like this now because All they want is to see me happy.
So this is not a post to bitch about my parents but its just an expression of what I feel.
And yeah, like every other person I love my parents like hell and they are not less than my world.
Enough for today.
I think I should Now make strategies to score the best in my Boards.If you people were able to relate,please tell me in comments.
And share :)
Meet you next time with some new problems.Till the time take care Buds :)